Tuesday, November 25, 2003

Is this true? This is a pirated MBTI test..haha, but sounds like me?

You're an ISFP
ISFP
You're gentle and compassionate...open and flexible...considerate of others and do not for views and opinions on them. Often focus on meeting others needs...pleasant, quiet and kind....at their best ensuring others well-being. Caring and sensitive....modest and reserved..

OK...you enjoy subjects that relate to helping and knowing about people... art ... computers and history classes if these classes are taught with an applied, sensible approach.. and if objectives relate directly to everyday lives....

You're somewhat artistic, aren't you? You could probably post a great poem on the Storm Palace, huh? You dislike structure, because it takes away from your spontaneity and freedom. You like leisure, and seek it out. You savor it...probably say "stop and smell the roses"...You have a personal and humorous approach that is unique...

Patient and flexible..easy to get along with and no need to dominate others. You don't need to lead, and are a loyal follower...good team members... You're trusting and understanding...

Love to you is utter devotion and loyalty... when you first fall in love, you may feel consumed by it...."falling in love with love" ...focus on the romance of it all..you are constantly nourishing the relationship... When scorned, you probably retreat and repeatedly analyze the situation internally....When you let go finally, you can be more assertive again...

You organize things according to their personal and humanistic values. You like a work setting that contains cooperative people... leadership style involves personal loyalty as a means of motivating others... prefer team approach...likes to enjoy life...

Be careful of the following: you can lose out when you neglect your own needs. because you see others' needs so clearly, and because you're heavily motivated toward meeting others' needs, you may overlook your own requirements. You need to learn how to respect own needs more and to be assertive and direct with others in asking for their help and for time to take care of themselves.

You also lose out when you are afraid of conflict and mismanage it as a result. You take personal responsibility for conflicts and issues that in actuality belong to others. You become hurt and withdraw. Finally, you can lose out when you become self-critical, and do not appreciate your own accomplishments.



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Tuesday, November 04, 2003

寻找周杰伦
Forgot to mention that the movie about Jay is out, screening on next Thurs. It's call the 'Hidden Track', but Jay's not starring in it. What a disappointment for his fans! I'll still support the movie though..

My childhood New Year

Still remember the time when I was a child.. young enough to keep things into my memories but not old enough to understand things. I was only 9 years old then.

When I was very much younger, I used to hate going to my Grandma's place for Chinese New Year as we had to take a long ride in the car to Pontian, where she used to live. I always had problems with motion sickness and my parents had to stop the car for me to vomit at the roadside. But that place was damn happening and exciting. As I slowly grew up, I began to enjoy the days of CNY there, even started to look forward to it. Those days of playing with my cousins, new year goodies and the fireworks! It was what we could never have in Singapore..it was wonderful and we could go catching fireflies at night too. I remember that when I was in Pri 3 and Pri 4, after the long journey back home on the last day of holidays, I developed a strange feeling of unwillingness to go back to school after all that fun and started crying at home.. The memories of all that tears all came back to me now.

Maybe it's really hard for someone to go back to reality after having so much fun, it's like a sudden change of events that made it really hard to be acceptable at moments, even though beforehand we had been doing it everyday. Hmm.. I'm much reminded of what happened in my childhood days and after having too much fun, I was unwilling to go back to school again. And now I'm still like a child. Luckily, I should say that people adapt really fast and once again, I'm back on track. It doesn't feel so painful anymore to leave those happiness behind and get on with life.


As an afternote.. I should add on that those days only lasted till I went to secondary school. In my teens, I wished that I could go back home when I went back to M'sia for visiting every year. No longer did I enjoy it so much, and I was always looking forward to meet up with friends in school againn or to go for plucking green, after the hols. And we always get an extra day of holiday during CNY. =)